Inspirational Quotes of the Day

This is day which the Lord Hath made;

we will rejoice and glad in it.

Psalm 18:24

The Little Baguio of Dalaguete,Cebu

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I Love You This Much Award...

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How to make relationships forever burning

True love doesn't come easily and instantly.But if that love is real and deep it lasts.
Many claim, it should go through lots of tests,guts,will and passion and must be nurtured as well.
and as love finds success and grows deeply,partners should be careful and wise enough to fix things and to make decisions to keep love forever. So,what are the things to consider for being in love for life?
Sexual attraction and chemistry are very much said about love.Somehow it's true for everyone that they make love more exciting and spicy.But in the long run,it's not enough to keep the fire
burning, it fades.
Physical attraction is also one,it does matters for young couples of time.But much later as they grow older,deeper understanding about the feeling exists and could help them be as one as years go on.
Based on research, married couples mostly share the truest kind of love.They submit themselves to one another.They share intimacy,living,understanding,loving and learning from
each other.But love is not only for husbands and wives for to love and to be loved even in simplest way made for everyone.When someone is truly in love and already sure of what he feels,it is a very good experience that happen to him.Though sometimes love causes sorrows and pains, still,it is the greatest feeling one has for when a person falls in love,he experiences magic it self.
Love is sweeter the second time around,In time,its true.Split ups provide space for each other to think and realize the things happened in the past.Reconciliation is the chance of making up mistakes that happened during the last stormy relationship.
For this issue,I want to share with you some tips and pointers in keeping relationships forever's burning.

• Be respectful to each other.Respect is the most important point to develop trust in a relationship.One should respect each other's opinion and plans to maintain equal level of thoughts.
• Be a giver.It is not proper to always ask for something,What is important is what you give than what you get.Give your partner all that is in you physically, emotionally, and spiritually.
• Be selfless.Think of what your partner likes more than what you do. Ask for each other's plans and opinions before doing something.
• Make him/her a part of yourself.If you consider your partner as the most important part of your life that you cannot breathe without him/her then you won't think things that could harm him/her.View and protect him/her same way you do for yourself.Care for him/her as the most precious part of your life that money cannot buy.
• Have time foe each other.Communicate and make it a point to talk each other at least once a day.Find time to feel each other's presence and try to share with each other the experiences of the day.
• Be open.Shame is natural but it can be overcome when one is courageous enough to open up things even to the most bit of it.Tell your insights,plans and thoughts to develop with your partner the spirit of closeness.Remember that everyone is incomplete so take time to fill each other's deficiencies to establish wholeness of self.
• Be loyal.Plenty of temptations are lurking almost lurking almost everywhere.But being true can overcome even the most monstrous lure.For the nature of a person is good and everyone is trying to be pure.
• Cultivate a sense of humor.Laughter is the best medicine as everyone knows.Share a common set of jokes that can release tension and intensity of drama that make togetherness dry,dull and not satisfying.
• Reassure your love everyday.Simple words wipe out insecurities.But still actions speaks louder than words.So, try to do something that expresses your emotions.Chocolates,flowers and sweet nothings may help but the most important thing that matters is your presence whenever your partner needs you.
• Seek spiritual guidance.Prayer is the most powerful thing in the world.Actions without the help of God is nothing.So,try attend a mass every Sunday and pray together for a stronger relationships.
  

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Maraming salamat kay Super Gulaman!sa muling pagbibigay ng blog award na ito. Hindi ko na hulaan ang gender ng gumawa ng blog award na ito. Pero sigurado ako na hindi siya lalaki...:D

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Inspirational Quotes of the Day

True repentance is so much more than words It is a deep,inner sorrow of the heart which resonates with the pain of the one who has been injured.It is also a solemn desire and decision not to act in ways which can create such pain in the future.

PARTNERS AND MARRIAGE

PARTNERS AND MARRIAGE
By Eduardo Jose E. Calasanz

I have never met a man who didn’t want to be loved. But I have seldom met a man who didn’t fear marriage. Something about the closure seems constricting, not enabling. Marriage seems easier to understand for what it cuts out of our lives than for what it makes possible within our lives.

When I was younger this fear immobilized me. I did not want to make a mistake. I saw my friends get married for reasons of social acceptability, or sexual fever, or just because they thought it was the logical thing to do. Then I watched, as they and their partners became embittered and petty in their dealings with each other. I looked at older couples and saw, at best, mutual toleration of each other. I imagined a lifetime of loveless nights and bickering
and could not imagine subjecting myself or someone else to such a fate.

And yet, on rare occasions, I would see old couples who somehow seemed to glow in each other’s presence. They seemed really in love, not just dependent upon each other and tolerant of each other’s foibles. It was an astounding sight, and it seemed impossible. How, I asked myself, can they have survived so many years of sameness, so much irritation at the others habits? What keeps love alive in them, when most of us seem unable to even stay together, much less love
each other?

The central secret seems to be in choosing well. There is something to the claim of fundamental compatibility. Good people can create a bad relationship, even though they both dearly want the relationship to succeed. It is important to find someone with whom you can create a good relationship from the outset. Unfortunately, it is hard to see clearly in the early stages. Sexual hunger draws you to each other and colors the way you see yourselves together. It blinds you to the thousands of little things by which relationships eventually survive or fail. You need to find a way to see beyond this initial overwhelming sexual fascination. Some people choose to involve themselves sexually and ride out the most heated period of sexual attraction in order to see what is on the other side.

This can work, but it can also leave a trail of wounded hearts. Others deny the sexual side altogether in an attempt to get to know each other apart from their sexuality. But they cannot see clearly, because the presence of unfulfilled sexual desire looms so large that it keeps them from having any normal perception of what life would be like together.

The truly lucky people are the ones who manage to become long-time friends before they realize they are attracted to each other. They get to know each other’s laughs, passions, sadness, and fears. They see each other at their worst and at their best. They share time together before they
get swept up into the entangling intimacy of their sexuality. This is the ideal, but not often possible. If you fall under the spell of your sexual attraction immediately, you need to look beyond it for other keys to compatibility. One of these is laughter. Laughter tells you how
much you will enjoy each others company over the long term.

If your laughter together is good and healthy, and not at the expense of others, then you have a healthy relationship to the world. Laughter is the child of surprise. If you can make each other laugh, you can always surprise each other. And if you can always surprise each other, you can always keep the world around you new.

Beware of a relationship in which there is no laughter. Even the most intimate relationships based only on seriousness have a tendency to turn sour. Over time, sharing a common serious viewpoint on the world tends to turn you against those who do not share the same viewpoint, and your relationship can become based on being critical together.

After laughter, look for a partner who deals with the world in a way you respect. When two people first get together, they tend to see their relationship as existing only in the space between the two of them. They find each other endlessly fascinating, and the overwhelming power of the
emotions they are sharing obscures the outside world. As the relationship ages and grows, the outside world becomes important again. If your partner treats people or circumstances in a way you can’t accept, you will inevitably come to grief. Look at the way she cares for others and deals with the daily affairs of life. If that makes you love her more, your love will grow. If it does not, be careful. If you do not respect the way you each deal with the world around you, eventually the two of you will not respect each other.

Look also at how your partner confronts the mysteries of life. We live on the cusp of poetry and practicality, and the real life of the heart resides in the poetic. If one of you is deeply affected by the mystery of the unseen in life and relationships, while the other is drawn only to the literal and the practical, you must take care that the distance does not become an unbridgeable gap that leaves you each feeling isolated and misunderstood.

There are many other keys, but you must find them by yourself. We all have unchangeable parts of our hearts that we will not betray and private commitments to a vision of life that we will not deny.

If you fall in love with someone who cannot nourish those inviolable parts of you, or if you cannot nourish them in her, you will find yourselves growing further apart until you live in separate worlds where you share the business of life, but never touch each other where the heart lives
and dreams. From there it is only a small leap to the cataloging of petty hurts and daily failures that leaves so many couples bitter and unsatisfied with their mates.

So choose carefully and well. If you do, you will have chosen a partner with whom you can grow, and then the real miracle of marriage can take place in your hearts. I pick my words carefully when I speak of a miracle. But I think it is not too strong a word. There is a miracle in marriage. It is called transformation.

Transformation is one of the most common events of nature. The seed becomes the flower. The cocoon becomes the butterfly. Winter becomes spring and love becomes a child. We never question these, because we see them around us every day. To us they are not miracles, though if we did not know them they would be impossible to believe.

Marriage is a transformation we choose to make. Our love is planted like a seed, and in time it begins to flower. We cannot know the flower that will blossom, but we can be sure that a bloom will come.

If you have chosen carefully and wisely, the bloom will be good. If you have chosen poorly or for the wrong reason, the bloom will be flawed. We are quite willing to accept the reality of negative transformation in a marriage. It was negative transformation that always had me terrified of
the bitter marriages that I feared when I was younger. It never occurred to me to question the dark miracle that transformed love into harshness and bitterness. Yet I was unable to accept the possibility that the first heat of love could be transformed into something positive that was actually deeper and more meaningful than the heat of fresh passion. All I could believe in was the power of this passion and the fear that when it cooled I would be left with something lesser
and bitter.

But there is positive transformation as well. Like negative transformation, it results from a slow accretion of little things. But instead of death by a thousand blows, it is growth by a thousand touches of love. Two histories intermingle. Two separate beings, two separate presence, two separate consciousness come together and share a view of life that passes before them. They remain separate, but they also become one. There is an expansion of awareness, not a closure and a constriction, as I had once feared. This is not to say that there is not tension and there are not traps. Tension and traps are part of every choice of life, from celibate to monogamous to having multiple lovers. Each choice contains within it the lingering doubt that the road not taken
somehow more fruitful and exciting, and each becomes dulled to the richness that it alone contains.

But only marriage allows life to deepen and expand and be leavened by the knowledge that two have chosen, against all odds, to become one. Those who live together without marriage can know the pleasure of shared company, but there is a specific gravity in the marriage commitment that deepens that experience into something richer and more complex.

So do not fear marriage, just as you should not rush into it for the wrong reasons. It is an act of faith and it contains within it the power of transformation. If you believe in your heart that you have found someone with whom you are able to grow, if you have sufficient faith that you can resist the endless attraction of the road not taken and the partner not chosen, if you have the strength of heart to embrace the cycles and seasons that your love will experience, then you may be ready to seek the miracle that marriage offers. If not, then wait. The easy grace of a marriage well made is worth your patience. When the time comes, a thousand flowers will bloom… endlessly.

Alipin By Shamrock

Alipin

Di ko man maamin
Ikaw ay mahalaga sa akin
Di ko man maisip
Sa pagtulog ikaw ang panaginip
Malabo man ang aking pag-iisip
Sana"y pakinggan mo ang sigaw nitong damdamin

Ako"y alipin mo kahit hindi batid
Aaminin ko minsan ako"y manhid
Sana at iyong nariring
Sayong yakap ako"y nasasabik…

Ayoko sa iba
Sayo ako ay hindi magsasawa
Ano man ang iyong sabihin
Umasa ka ito ay diringgin
Madalas man na parang aso"t pusa
Giliw sa piling mo ako ay masaya

Ako"y alipin mo kahit hindi batid
Aaminin ko minsan ako"y manhid
Sana at iyong nariring
Sayong yakap ako"y nasasabik…

Pilit mang abutin ang mga tala
Basta"t sa akin wag kang mawawala

Ako"y alipin mo kahit hindi batid
Aaminin ko minsan ako"y manhid
Sana ay iyong naririnig
Sayong yakap ako"y nasasabik
Pagkat ikaw lang ang nais makatabi
Malamig man o mainit ang gabi
Nais ko sana iparating na ikaw lamang
Ang siyang aking iibigin…

Inspirational Quotes of the Day "Forgiveness"

"And whenever you stand praying, if you have anything against anyone,forgive him,that your Father in heaven may also forgive you your trespasses.

"But if you do not forgive,neither will your Father in heaven forgive your trespasses"

Mark 11:25-26

Inspirational Quotes of the Day

“It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is the most painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let the person know how you feel.”

Inspirational Quotes of the Day "LOVE"

"You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your strength,and with all your mind,and your neighbor as yourself;"

LOVE QUOTES

It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.